Can This Marriage Be Saved?

Dr. Gunzburg talks about the movie Hope Springs and saving your marriage in this YouTube video. Hope Springs, a 2012 movie about an intensive marriage retreat, brings up the question Can This Marriage Be Saved? Dr. Gunzburg, in this YouTube video, talks about his reaction to the movie and how years of built-up anger and […]

Learning How to Be Romantic…Again

“I’m just not romantic. That’s all there is to it. It’s not who I am. What do you want out of me?” You have no idea how many people (especially men) come into my office and say something like this. These people portray themselves as handicapped when it comes to romance. They say they aren’t […]

Three Tips to Bring Romance Back Into Your Marriage

The following article is a continuation of Learning How to Be Romantic Again which helps identify the problem of not being romantic. Romantic Tip #1: Call to Say “I Love You” If you are the notoriously unromantic type, my guess is that you don’t take time out of your day to call your spouse and […]

Apologize Already

Saying “I’m sorry” when you apologize does not mean “I’m a bad person.” Unfortunately, too many of us come into adulthood thinking it is awful for someone else to tell us we have behaved poorly and we should apologize for doing wrong. Apologize Already: How to Say I’m Sorry Imagine you’ve done something you wouldn’t […]

Using Active Listening

The goal of this communication exercise, “Using Active Listening,” is to develop a new and improved understanding of each other. You can use active listening to improve your marriage. Suggestion:Have paper and pen handy for each of you to keep track of what you hear and of your own thoughts while your partner is talking. […]

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