Advice Blog / About

Marriage Therapist Beliefs

My Beliefs as a Therapist Helping Marriages I Believe in Marriage-Friendly Marriage Counseling In addition to the meaning of seeing a licensed psychologist, and the importance of finding a good marriage counselor, you also want to be careful to find a marriage counselor who believes in keeping your marriage together. I am Dr. Gunzburg. I […]

Marriage Counseling and Stress Reduction: Why Ears?

I want to introduce you to a concept you may not be familiar with: no-needle auriculotherapy for marriage counseling stress reduction. Your ears, just like the rest of your body, have energy or treatment paths related to all parts of your body and mind. Your ears and their treatment points are not usually associated with […]

Taken for Granted

Being taken for granted in your marriage can lead to anger and resentment. In everyday married life, you may lose sight of your priorities. You can easily forget just how much your spouse means to you. Then, relatively minor issues provide an opportunity for an angry trashing of your “misbehaving” spouse. Priorities in Marriage Which […]

After the Argument

Couples arguing…a common occurrence…you’ve just had a huge blow-up between you and your spouse and now the situation is relatively calm. You went to do your activities and your spouse went somewhere else in the house. As time moves on do you bring the issue up again and risk another blow-up, or let it go […]

Is Anger Good or Bad?

Is it good or bad to express anger in marriage? I read in a marriage book once (Marriage Mediator by Karl Schmidt) that wives should “express anger and contempt” and husbands should also “engage in conflict” to clean out their marriages from disagreements or arguing. This idea could be damaging to a couple’s relationship and […]

Arguments Lead To Anger

Arguments are a large source of friction in married couples today. Too often, arguments become battles of who can yell the loudest, or who can persist the longest, or who can say the personally most hurtful comment. Arguments like these are filled with anger, and the original ideas get lost in the verbal and emotional […]

Managing Anger In Marriage

  Is anger management desirable? Even far back into history people have questioned if managing anger is possible. Still today you can read many different approaches to this question including whether or not managing anger is helpful or harmful to an individual or to a relationship. Definition of “Anger” or “Losing One’s Temper” Let’s first […]