You are right to be concerned. Part of developing a successful marriage is growing up and acting like you're married, which your wife is not willing to do. I don't think you will be successful at getting her to a therapist for an evaluation, but I recommend you use whatever persuasive approach you have. I … Read more
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Marriage counseling can create healing that lasts. There are many purposes for marriage counseling and therapy, but some of the main purposes are to give the couple a safe place to discuss problems, and a trained and objective view to help plan and implement solutions. Therapy also helps troubled marriages by reviewing, teaching and reinforcing … Read more
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Finding a marriage counselor or therapist who can work well with you and be committed to your marriage can be a difficult task. Unfortunately, finding the wrong person can have severe consequences for your marriage and your finances. Marriage Help Qualifications? In Some Cases, NONE What qualifies someone to give you marriage help? How can … Read more
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Dr. Gunzburg’s Therapy Style How I Work With My Clients My therapy style is the product of over 40 years as a licensed psychologist counseling couples in trouble and helping those couples come back from the brink of divorce. I even help couples survive a marital affair, when the marriage is able to be saved. … Read more
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Or, maybe you unfortunately experienced some of these situations directly when you were trying to repair your marriage. The most common error I hear from couples I work with is when the counselor they saw before was stymied by the complexity of their problems. The counselor sent them away telling them to get divorced because … Read more
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Is it good or bad to express anger in marriage? I read in a marriage book once (Marriage Mediator by Karl Schmidt) that wives should “express anger and contempt” and husbands should also “engage in conflict” to clean out their marriages from disagreements or arguing. This idea could be damaging to a couple’s relationship and … Read more
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