Survive Affair

Repairing a Marriage After Both Spouses Had an Affair

Can a marriage be repaired after each person has had an affair? Yes, it's possible. Can the two of you accomplish this? I don’t know. First, any and all other lovers have to be left without hope of your ever getting together again, even if you and your spouse don't work out. Second, you both … Read more

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Survive an Affair

Does it sound impossible to think that you can survive an affair? You really can re-create your marriage after infidelity and make it better than ever. This self help marriage book is a comprehensive step-by-step program to help you save your relationship after it has been shattered by an extra-marital affair. Learn How to Survive an Affair » … Read more

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Repair After An Affair

In order to lie to your spouse and cheat on your marriage vow, betray your spouse’s trust, and risk losing your marriage and children, your character had to slip into a shameful place. If you are still interested in holding on to your marriage, then these steps can help point you in the right direction. … Read more

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Restore Trust After Infidelity

It goes without saying that an extra-marital affair destroys trust. You have to live a life of being trustworthy to provide authentic trust. It is not something one partner can “give” to the other. Restoring Trust In Your Marriage In order to restore trust in your marriage after an affair, you need to show your … Read more

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Betrayed by Spouse

Finding out your spouse had an affair is a terrible experience. You have just been dropped into emotional turmoil, unsure of which way is up or down, no telling what to do, no clue of whom to go to. You’ve Been Betrayed by Your Cheating Spouse Your spouse cheated and lied, and now you’re left … Read more

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Survive An Affair

It is often possible, but difficult, to survive an affair. You as a couple have some hurdles in your path for your marriage to survive after an affair. Initial Steps to Get Over An Affair Desire to Repair Your Marriage and Heal From Betrayal You have to really want to repair your marriage and heal … Read more

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Letting Go of Infidelity

I have been asked in the past if it is possible to let go of infidelity and work on repairing the relationship (without working through the steps to deal with the affair). This is an important point. Infidelity stems from somewhere, and if a couple wishes to move past the affair, they must work through … Read more

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Infidelity Begins Small

Infidelity begins long before the discovery of the extra-marital affair. No matter whether one or both of you had an affair, if you are now trying to heal, the cheater will need to adjust his or her thinking and behavior to avoid the temptation to act this way again. You never really know what someone … Read more

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Keep Away From Infidelity

The further you stay away from anything that even slightly may lead to infidelity, the better off you will be. I often get couples in my office for counseling after an affair. Many times, the spouse who had an affair did not start out looking to cheat on his or her spouse. There were little … Read more

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Is Your Marriage Over?

Once infidelity is revealed in your marriage have no doubt that your spouse is nothing short of devastated. While it used to be that when the word “infidelity” was heard it was automatically linked to the male, that is no longer the case. Both men and women are sharing an almost equal role in committing … Read more

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Survive Infidelity

Are you wondering if it’s possible to survive infidelity or is your marriage now dead? Infidelity is a serious, devastating betrayal to most people who unexpectedly find out about the third person in the triangle. There is not a simple answer as to whether or not you can get your marriage back. Dr. Gunzburg on … Read more

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Advice After the Affair

Okay, you’ve been hit with the knowledge your spouse cheated on you and you wonder about surviving an affair. Maybe you never want to see or speak with your spouse ever again. Maybe you want to do worse to your spouse. Many of you will begin to ask friends, relatives, your pastor, your hair dresser, … Read more

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Immediately After Affair

During the early days after discovery, I encourage people to not be in a rush. You Have Time to Decide You don’t have to know immediately what you are going to do. Of course, you very well might feel what you want to do at that time, which is different than knowing your decision. Intellectual … Read more

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