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Divorce With Children

Children and divorce create new problems, and obligations including: Emotional obligations and problems Financial obligations and issues Time obligations and problems You might be able to predict some child-centered issues for children after divorce by watching other divorced parents. This will provide only part of the story. Children Need More Support After Divorce In most […]

Happier After Divorce?

Many people look to divorce as a way out of their present unhappy situations. They think that if they can only get out on their own they will find happiness and fulfillment. What does the research show? Does Divorce Actually Make People Happier? A team of well-respected marriage therapists and researchers authored a 2002 report […]

Adjust Your Thinking

You can adjust your attitude and in so doing, possibly stop divorce. Many times people begin thinking about divorce as a way out of the immediate pain of angry words or arguments, or being criticized, or being demeaned. The idea of divorce becomes a fantasy place without the anger, criticism, and put-downs. It seems as […]

Stop Divorce: There Is Hope!

Have you considered that one option is to stop divorce and work to fix your marriage? If you are not certain about divorce, perhaps you should not be pursuing divorce. Society Tells Us Divorce Is Solution If divorce seems like a viable option for you, you’re probably feeling discouraged and thinking there is no cure […]

A Divorce Alternative

This article was written and originally published during the recent recession, although the information within is applicable in all economic conditions. I recently read that divorce is down due to the economy not doing so well. Couples having trouble can’t afford to support two households instead of one, can’t afford lawyer’s fees and court costs, […]

The Cost of Divorce

Couples do not usually calculate the true cost of divorce when they are considering whether to work through their marital issues or get divorced. The true cost of divorce includes many aspects that most people fail to recognize as being part of the total cost (both monetary and emotional) of divorce. Possible Marriage Problems If […]

How To Stop Divorce

A common question for couples on the verge of divorce is:Can I stop a divorce after my spouse asks for it? Couples come to me asking if I can help them stay married. Often in these cases the other spouse is pushing to separate or divorce. The spouse who is talking with me is the […]

Is Your Marriage Over?

Once infidelity is revealed in your marriage have no doubt that your spouse is nothing short of devastated. While it used to be that when the word “infidelity” was heard it was automatically linked to the male, that is no longer the case. Both men and women are sharing an almost equal role in committing […]

Advice After the Affair

Okay, you’ve been hit with the knowledge your spouse cheated on you and you wonder about surviving an affair. Maybe you never want to see or speak with your spouse ever again. Maybe you want to do worse to your spouse. Many of you will begin to ask friends, relatives, your pastor, your hair dresser, […]