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Problems in Marriage

Problems in Your Marriage? Getting Help I’m Committed to Helping with Problems in Your Marriage Hi I am Dr. Frank Gunzburg. Why use my services or products versus all others available? There are a lot of different programs out there, and many marriage counselors. What are some reasons you would choose one over the other […]

Healing That Lasts

Marriage counseling can create healing that lasts. There are many purposes for marriage counseling and therapy, but some of the main purposes are to give the couple a safe place to discuss problems, and a trained and objective view to help plan and implement solutions. Therapy also helps troubled marriages by reviewing, teaching and reinforcing […]

Creating Boundaries

Spousal jealousy is a leading cause of marital issues. Sometimes there is good cause for jealousy, and other times it is a spouse’s insecurity and fears which are creating the jealous feelings. One great method for reducing jealousy is to set up relationship boundaries. Relationship Boundaries Are Important You and your spouse can set up […]

A Jealous Spouse

Are you dealing with a jealous spouse? With a jealous spouse there will be feelings of frustration and worry. Your marriage is bound to be in trouble. I’m referring to a situation where your spouse is jealous even though you think you have not given any cause for jealousy. You are in a difficult position. […]

Children and Divorce

If you are having serious marital problems and you have children, at some point you might consider the dilemma of divorce or separation for your own happiness weighed against staying together for the benefit of the children. The usual argument is that two happy single parents living apart are better than two disgruntled parents staying […]

The Cost of Divorce

Couples do not usually calculate the true cost of divorce when they are considering whether to work through their marital issues or get divorced. The true cost of divorce includes many aspects that most people fail to recognize as being part of the total cost (both monetary and emotional) of divorce. Possible Marriage Problems If […]

Therapy Leads to Divorce

It is unfortunate, but individual therapists can sometimes subtly lead married couples to divorce. Sometimes this is intentional by the counselor and sometimes it is outside the counselor’s awareness. Individual Therapy May Hurt Your Marriage An individual therapist can very subtly lead you to divorce, or help you be firmer in your resolve to divorce, […]

Better Than Arguing

Arguing is one way for a couple to attempt to resolve a disagreement. Arguments can range from a mildly contentious exchange of ideas to an explosive personal trashing of one or both of the participants. Ideal Arguments Ideally, arguments would be more like debating two sides of an issue. Each person would present his idea […]

Communication in Marriage

Communication in marriage is not just about the words you use. There are many aspects of communication that we may not think about, yet that we use every day. Some other aspects of communication are: …your tone of voice. …what you say and how you say it. …your body language and posture. …where your eyes […]