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How to Rebuild Love

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Spend Time Together

Many times couples feel as though they have fallen out of love with each other after extended periods of time of not spending enjoyable time together. In modern life, we wake up, rush to work, rush home, eating when we can, trying to achieve all the lofty goals we set for ourselves. We barely make […]

Restore Trust After Infidelity

It goes without saying that an extra-marital affair destroys trust. You have to live a life of being trustworthy to provide authentic trust. It is not something one partner can “give” to the other. Restoring Trust In Your Marriage In order to restore trust in your marriage after an affair, you need to show your […]

Increase Marriage Intimacy

Do you have marriage intimacy problems? Are these intimacy issues hurting your relationship? Remember when you were first with your spouse, you felt all the initial intimacy, love and romance. You probably started thinking, “This is the one for me!” Back then you could not wait to be with your love again and you anxiously […]

Practice Saying Thanks

Practice saying “thanks”. Show appreciation for your spouse by leaving a handwritten note for him or her to find later. Express your gratitude for a job well done. Think about your day and find something your spouse does for you that you hadn’t previously noticed or mentioned. Give praise or thanks for what you hadn’t […]

Power of Apology

Saying “I’m Sorry” does not equal saying “I’m Wrong”. Learn to be more generous with the words “I’m Sorry” Avoid the “I didn’t do anything wrong” defense by thinking of an apology in new terms: If your behavior resulted in your spouse feeling hurt, disappointed or worried, wouldn’t you like to ease those feelings? Saying […]