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Repairing a Marriage After Both Spouses Had an Affair
Can a marriage be repaired after each person has had an affair? Yes, it's possible. Can the two of you accomplish this? I don’t know. First, any and all other lovers have to be left without hope of your ever getting together again, even if you and your spouse don't work out. Second, you both … Read more
Read Repairing a Marriage After Both Spouses Had an AffairCheating Spouse? How to Move Forward After Infidelity
If it were up to me, I would put warning signs over the doors of individual therapists: Caution, individual therapy may be hazardous to your marital health. Your therapist's recommendation is not unusual, and sometimes it works to get a marriage going again. The problem I find with this advice is that it is not … Read more
Read Cheating Spouse? How to Move Forward After InfidelityMarital affair at work
I often deal with infidelity in marriages and frequently it begins in the workplace. Sexually Provocative: Is She Aware? I think the attached cartoon implies that the woman is aware of how sexually provocative she is and possibly delighting in the sexual discomfort she is provoking. The man seems quite aware of his own discomfort. … Read more
Read Marital affair at workSurvive an Affair
Does it sound impossible to think that you can survive an affair? You really can re-create your marriage after infidelity and make it better than ever. This self help marriage book is a comprehensive step-by-step program to help you save your relationship after it has been shattered by an extra-marital affair. Learn How to Survive an Affair » … Read more
Read Survive an AffairRepair After An Affair
In order to lie to your spouse and cheat on your marriage vow, betray your spouse’s trust, and risk losing your marriage and children, your character had to slip into a shameful place. If you are still interested in holding on to your marriage, then these steps can help point you in the right direction. … Read more
Read Repair After An AffairRestore Trust After Infidelity
It goes without saying that an extra-marital affair destroys trust. You have to live a life of being trustworthy to provide authentic trust. It is not something one partner can “give” to the other. Restoring Trust In Your Marriage In order to restore trust in your marriage after an affair, you need to show your … Read more
Read Restore Trust After InfidelityLove At The Office
If your spouse has someone at work who he or she talks to or talks about, or is spending unreasonable time and attention toward that person, you may suspect love at the office or that your spouse has a “work spouse”. Both situations are potential issues. Let’s explore love at the office in more detail. … Read more
Read Love At The OfficeAfter An Affair
So the affair is out in the open now. This is only the beginning. You might have difficulty imagining this, but you can work your way through this. It will take time and effort, and a lot of patience and understanding, as well as love and a kind of forgiveness. Your world is probably in … Read more
Read After An AffairBetrayed by Spouse
Finding out your spouse had an affair is a terrible experience. You have just been dropped into emotional turmoil, unsure of which way is up or down, no telling what to do, no clue of whom to go to. You’ve Been Betrayed by Your Cheating Spouse Your spouse cheated and lied, and now you’re left … Read more
Read Betrayed by SpouseLetting Go of Infidelity
I have been asked in the past if it is possible to let go of infidelity and work on repairing the relationship (without working through the steps to deal with the affair). This is an important point. Infidelity stems from somewhere, and if a couple wishes to move past the affair, they must work through … Read more
Read Letting Go of InfidelityInfidelity Begins Small
Infidelity begins long before the discovery of the extra-marital affair. No matter whether one or both of you had an affair, if you are now trying to heal, the cheater will need to adjust his or her thinking and behavior to avoid the temptation to act this way again. You never really know what someone … Read more
Read Infidelity Begins SmallPre-Marital Promises
There are two unrealistic pre-marital promises about having an affair. Perhaps there are more than two promises that dating couples make about potential marital infidelity, but these are the two I commonly encounter. Common Pre-Marital Promises About Marital Affairs Here are the two common unrealistic pre-marital promises about infidelity: “If I ever even think about … Read more
Read Pre-Marital PromisesKeep Away From Infidelity
The further you stay away from anything that even slightly may lead to infidelity, the better off you will be. I often get couples in my office for counseling after an affair. Many times, the spouse who had an affair did not start out looking to cheat on his or her spouse. There were little … Read more
Read Keep Away From InfidelityIs Your Marriage Over?
Once infidelity is revealed in your marriage have no doubt that your spouse is nothing short of devastated. While it used to be that when the word “infidelity” was heard it was automatically linked to the male, that is no longer the case. Both men and women are sharing an almost equal role in committing … Read more
Read Is Your Marriage Over?Avoid Love At Work
You want to stay away from love at the office or setting up a work spouse. This situation, while not immediately damaging, can harm your marriage in the long run. Work Relationship Only Some may argue that it is a work relationship and not a personal relationship. Therefore it shouldn’t matter. This is a fallacy. … Read more
Read Avoid Love At WorkFacebook & Cheating
Facebook and cheating are in the news… Rise in Social Media Evidence in Divorce Cases Do Facebook and other social media lead to infidelity and cheating, and afterwards divorce?For part of the answer, we turn to a report on social media and divorce by the The American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers (AAML). In February, 2010, … Read more
Read Facebook & CheatingBe Careful on Facebook!
I have had numerous couples in my office, bringing in evidence of cheating and infidelity based on Facebook and other social media websites. When the couple is unable to move past the infidelity, this social media evidence of cheating is sometimes later used in court. Be Cautious and Stop Cheating I urge you to be … Read more
Read Be Careful on Facebook!Survive Infidelity
Are you wondering if it’s possible to survive infidelity or is your marriage now dead? Infidelity is a serious, devastating betrayal to most people who unexpectedly find out about the third person in the triangle. There is not a simple answer as to whether or not you can get your marriage back. Dr. Gunzburg on … Read more
Read Survive InfidelityAdvice After the Affair
Okay, you’ve been hit with the knowledge your spouse cheated on you and you wonder about surviving an affair. Maybe you never want to see or speak with your spouse ever again. Maybe you want to do worse to your spouse. Many of you will begin to ask friends, relatives, your pastor, your hair dresser, … Read more
Read Advice After the AffairImmediately After Affair
During the early days after discovery, I encourage people to not be in a rush. You Have Time to Decide You don’t have to know immediately what you are going to do. Of course, you very well might feel what you want to do at that time, which is different than knowing your decision. Intellectual … Read more
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