Advice Blog / About

Marital affair at work

I often deal with infidelity in marriages and frequently it begins in the workplace. Sexually Provocative: Is She Aware? I think the attached cartoon implies that the woman is aware of how sexually provocative she is and possibly delighting in the sexual discomfort she is provoking. The man seems quite aware of his own discomfort. […]

Survive an Affair

  Does it sound impossible to think that you can survive an affair? You really can re-create your marriage after infidelity and make it better than ever. This self help marriage book is a comprehensive step-by-step program to help you save your relationship after it has been shattered by an extra-marital affair. Learn How to Survive an Affair » […]

Repair After An Affair

In order to lie to your spouse and cheat on your marriage vow, betray your spouse’s trust, and risk losing your marriage and children, your character had to slip into a shameful place. If you are still interested in holding on to your marriage, then these steps can help point you in the right direction. […]

Restore Trust After Infidelity

It goes without saying that an extra-marital affair destroys trust. You have to live a life of being trustworthy to provide authentic trust. It is not something one partner can “give” to the other. Restoring Trust In Your Marriage In order to restore trust in your marriage after an affair, you need to show your […]

Love At The Office

If your spouse has someone at work who he or she talks to or talks about, or is spending unreasonable time and attention toward that person, you may suspect love at the office or that your spouse has a “work spouse”. Both situations are potential issues. Let’s explore love at the office in more detail. […]

Pre-Marital Promises

There are two unrealistic pre-marital promises about having an affair. Perhaps there are more than two promises that dating couples make about potential marital infidelity, but these are the two I commonly encounter. Common Pre-Marital Promises About Marital Affairs Here are the two common unrealistic pre-marital promises about infidelity: “If I ever even think about […]

Keep Away From Infidelity

The further you stay away from anything that even slightly may lead to infidelity, the better off you will be. I often get couples in my office for counseling after an affair. Many times, the spouse who had an affair did not start out looking to cheat on his or her spouse. There were little […]

Is Your Marriage Over?

Once infidelity is revealed in your marriage have no doubt that your spouse is nothing short of devastated. While it used to be that when the word “infidelity” was heard it was automatically linked to the male, that is no longer the case. Both men and women are sharing an almost equal role in committing […]

Avoid Love At Work

You want to stay away from love at the office or setting up a work spouse. This situation, while not immediately damaging, can harm your marriage in the long run. Work Relationship Only Some may argue that it is a work relationship and not a personal relationship. Therefore it shouldn’t matter. This is a fallacy. […]

Facebook & Cheating

Facebook and cheating are in the news… Rise in Social Media Evidence in Divorce Cases Do Facebook and other social media lead to infidelity and cheating, and afterwards divorce?For part of the answer, we turn to a report on social media and divorce by the The American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers (AAML). In February, 2010, […]