Betrayed by Spouse

Finding out your spouse had an affair is a terrible experience. You have just been dropped into emotional turmoil, unsure of which way is up or down, no telling what to do, no clue of whom to go to. You’ve Been Betrayed by Your Cheating Spouse Your spouse cheated and lied, and now you’re left […]

Survive An Affair

It is often possible, but difficult, to survive an affair. You as a couple have some hurdles in your path for your marriage to survive after an affair. Initial Steps to Get Over An Affair Desire to Repair Your Marriage and Heal From Betrayal You have to really want to repair your marriage and heal […]

Is Your Marriage Over?

Once infidelity is revealed in your marriage have no doubt that your spouse is nothing short of devastated. While it used to be that when the word “infidelity” was heard it was automatically linked to the male, that is no longer the case. Both men and women are sharing an almost equal role in committing […]

Facebook & Cheating

Facebook and cheating are in the news… Rise in Social Media Evidence in Divorce Cases Do Facebook and other social media lead to infidelity and cheating, and afterwards divorce?For part of the answer, we turn to a report on social media and divorce by the The American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers (AAML). In February, 2010, […]

Survive Infidelity

Are you wondering if it’s possible to survive infidelity or is your marriage now dead? Infidelity is a serious, devastating betrayal to most people who unexpectedly find out about the third person in the triangle. There is not a simple answer as to whether or not you can get your marriage back. Dr. Gunzburg on […]

Advice After the Affair

Okay, you’ve been hit with the knowledge your spouse cheated on you and you wonder about surviving an affair. Maybe you never want to see or speak with your spouse ever again. Maybe you want to do worse to your spouse. Many of you will begin to ask friends, relatives, your pastor, your hair dresser, […]

Immediately After Affair

During the early days after discovery, I encourage people to not be in a rush. You Have Time to Decide You don’t have to know immediately what you are going to do. Of course, you very well might feel what you want to do at that time, which is different than knowing your decision. Intellectual […]