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3 Steps to Stop Arguing

  Arguing is almost always going to happen eventually in married couples and long-term relationships. Arguing often leads to anger. Learning how to change your attitude can help you reduce angry feelings. The best case is for arguments to be more like a debate or a discussion, where all stances on the issue are seen […]

New Year Resolution

This article was originally published for New Years Day. The advice is true for every year, and for every day that we set goals for ourselves. Resolutions for Your Marriage I want to take this opportunity to wish everyone a Happy New Year and wish for you that this year will be better than last […]

Adjust Your Thinking

You can adjust your attitude and in so doing, possibly stop divorce. Many times people begin thinking about divorce as a way out of the immediate pain of angry words or arguments, or being criticized, or being demeaned. The idea of divorce becomes a fantasy place without the anger, criticism, and put-downs. It seems as […]

Attitude is Everything

How you think about your spouse, and what you think about your spouse, will determine your feelings and actions. Your attitude is everything in your marriage. If you are expecting and anticipating that your spouse is going to be complaining, that is what you are going to hear more of. Since you are expecting it, […]