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3 Steps to Stop Arguing

  Arguing is almost always going to happen eventually in married couples and long-term relationships. Arguing often leads to anger. Learning how to change your attitude can help you reduce angry feelings. The best case is for arguments to be more like a debate or a discussion, where all stances on the issue are seen […]

After the Argument

Couples arguing…a common occurrence…you’ve just had a huge blow-up between you and your spouse and now the situation is relatively calm. You went to do your activities and your spouse went somewhere else in the house. As time moves on do you bring the issue up again and risk another blow-up, or let it go […]

Better Than Arguing

Arguing is one way for a couple to attempt to resolve a disagreement. Arguments can range from a mildly contentious exchange of ideas to an explosive personal trashing of one or both of the participants. Ideal Arguments Ideally, arguments would be more like debating two sides of an issue. Each person would present his idea […]

Fix Argument

What can you do? How do you celebrate your love, your romance when your sweetheart feels so awful about you? What kind of Valentine’s Day Card do you buy? Everyone is supposed to be happy and romantic when Valentine’s Day comes around. Right? You’re supposed to be having loving, wonderful thoughts about your sweetheart. Right? […]

Stop Angry Arguments

Here are a few helpful self-management changes to stop angry arguments. Remember, you can only change yourself. If you change yourself effectively, you will probably find that your spouse will change to adjust to the new you; but don’t expect to change your spouse. Arguing Time and Time Limit If one of you is extremely […]

Arguments Lead To Anger

Arguments are a large source of friction in married couples today. Too often, arguments become battles of who can yell the loudest, or who can persist the longest, or who can say the personally most hurtful comment. Arguments like these are filled with anger, and the original ideas get lost in the verbal and emotional […]

Couples Argue

Spouses in an arguing couple often make the situation worse. Couples Argue Arguing couples usually feel they are stuck in a rut and fighting much of the time. If you are part of an arguing couple, whether married or in a long-term relationship, you can probably learn to change this angry, corrosive behavior and make […]