Anger

Therapy Style

Dr. Gunzburg’s Therapy Style How I Work With My Clients My therapy style is the product of over 40 years as a licensed psychologist counseling couples in trouble and helping those couples come back from the brink of divorce. I even help couples survive a marital affair, when the marriage is able to be saved. … Read more

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Marriage Counseling and Stress Reduction: Why Ears?

I want to introduce you to a concept you may not be familiar with: no-needle auriculotherapy for marriage counseling stress reduction. Your ears, just like the rest of your body, have energy or treatment paths related to all parts of your body and mind. Your ears and their treatment points are not usually associated with … Read more

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Lost That Lovin Feeling

Have you lost that “in-love” feeling and lost romance in your relationship? Has your spouse? You can get the love back into your marriage. What happened to the Romance, Passion and Pleasure? In my experience, love between a married couple rarely disappears. Instead, that loving feeling is just hiding – hiding behind feelings of anger, … Read more

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3 Steps to Stop Arguing

Arguing is almost always going to happen eventually in married couples and long-term relationships. Arguing often leads to anger. Learning how to change your attitude can help you reduce angry feelings. The best case is for arguments to be more like a debate or a discussion, where all stances on the issue are seen … Read more

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After the Argument

Couples arguing…a common occurrence…you’ve just had a huge blow-up between you and your spouse and now the situation is relatively calm. You went to do your activities and your spouse went somewhere else in the house. As time moves on do you bring the issue up again and risk another blow-up, or let it go … Read more

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Better Than Arguing

Arguing is one way for a couple to attempt to resolve a disagreement. Arguments can range from a mildly contentious exchange of ideas to an explosive personal trashing of one or both of the participants. Ideal Arguments Ideally, arguments would be more like debating two sides of an issue. Each person would present his idea … Read more

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Stop Angry Arguments

Here are a few helpful self-management changes to stop angry arguments. Remember, you can only change yourself. If you change yourself effectively, you will probably find that your spouse will change to adjust to the new you; but don’t expect to change your spouse. Arguing Time and Time Limit If one of you is extremely … Read more

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Stop Marriage Anger

How do you stop anger against your spouse? Do you have the experience of trying to keep from getting angry, but it boils over anyway? Does it seem that your spouse is working against you instead of on the same team? Sometimes angry feelings ebb and flow only erupting occasionally. Or anger can eat at … Read more

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Allow Time To Cool Off

Married life is not all peaches and cream. I’m sure you have realized that by now. That being said, there are going to be good times and bad times. Some married couples frequently deal with anger issues, and others may have issues at occasional times in their lives with anger. If you and your spouse … Read more

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Is Anger Good or Bad?

Is it good or bad to express anger in marriage? I read in a marriage book once (Marriage Mediator by Karl Schmidt) that wives should “express anger and contempt” and husbands should also “engage in conflict” to clean out their marriages from disagreements or arguing. This idea could be damaging to a couple’s relationship and … Read more

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Arguments Lead To Anger

Arguments are a large source of friction in married couples today. Too often, arguments become battles of who can yell the loudest, or who can persist the longest, or who can say the personally most hurtful comment. Arguments like these are filled with anger, and the original ideas get lost in the verbal and emotional … Read more

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Managing Anger In Marriage

Is anger management desirable? Even far back into history people have questioned if managing anger is possible. Still today you can read many different approaches to this question including whether or not managing anger is helpful or harmful to an individual or to a relationship. Definition of “Anger” or “Losing One’s Temper” Let’s first … Read more

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Dealing with Justified Anger

Do you and your spouse get angry at each other? Is your anger justified? Dr. Gunzburg tells what to do about it and why you should be concerned. If marriage anger is a problem in your relationship, check out this short video I put together. I talk about marriage anger when you think it is … Read more

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