First, you have to look at your own behavior. Are you doing anything suspicious or are you being defensive about your whereabouts or activities, or are you avoiding being reassuring? I have published free marriage tips on jealousy that may help.
If you are not doing any of the above, is he? Some people with his behavior are covering their own misbehaviors. I'm sure you've heard that a strong offense is the best defense.
Does he value you and the relationship you share? If so, maybe you would want to both take lie-detector tests to prove your innocence. In Maryland, a good lie-detector or polygraph test costs about $500 to $700.
If none of the above works for you, perhaps it's time for you to move on rather than let yourself continue to be berated by someone who no longer cares for you. Of course, there is information that neither of us can address in this brief question and answer format.
